Dang you guys and your fancy words LOL, Had to look that one up, Great word
pyr·rhic
[ˈpirik]
ADJECTIVE
(of a victory) won at too great a cost to have been worthwhile for the victor.
Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.