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Either way, you may eventually want to move closer to food stores and such. It can be difficult to drive, especially in bad weather, and in the sticks, there are probably no deliveries. Getting old is not all its cracked up to be, as physical activity declines. It usually works out because our interests change as we go. And God doesn't dish out more than we can handle, they say.

I have good friends who bought a house and land in VT on a mountainside/top It was literally owned by Norman Rockwell, they have his signature on the old deed. His birch trees were in the back yard. We used to go up there every Memorial Weekend.

They bought more land as an investment, so they owned around 80-100 acres. It was near Manchester, which was a thriving town, They had basically bought it for vacations with friends and so the guys could go up and mow the property with the tractor and such. Men and their toys! And we women had our discount designer shops and restaurants.

When they went to sell it (when they were in their low 70s), there were no buyers. They asked me if I wanted to take it for $20K. I said I'd love to, but couldn't afford the $10K/year it cost to have the driveway plowed and grated and have the fields mowed. Not to mention, taking care of a house. They may have given me a low price to try and keep it in the 'family.' I don't know what they sold it for, but they took a pretty big loss. In the meantime, Manchester went down hill, many of the shops closing. Don't know if the economy has come back up there.

They found out something they didn't know, when they went to sell. VT has crazy laws. They have low property taxes, but when you sell, there's a huge tax on the sale. I don't recall how it worked, but it was a surprise to them. Hopefully you have better luck in New Hampshire.

That said, it was a second home, a vacation home...


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Americans Face a Rising Risk of Dying Alone
By: Decomposed
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Mon, 09 Oct 17 11:27 PM
Msg. 36430 of 47202

Probably doesn't apply to anyone here. But my family will eventually be vulnerable to this since either my wife or I will likely outlive the other by a bit and will THEN be extremely isolated. I may handle that better than my wife. 

October 9, 2017

Americans Face a Rising Risk of Dying Alone
More older people are living on their own, and fewer have close relatives to help them out as they age.

By Ben Steverman
Bloomberg.com

Loneliness kills. Life without friends and family is not just dreary but difficult, especially as we get older.

Strong social relationships boost a person’s chances of staying alive by 50 percent, according to a comprehensive 2010 review of 148 studies that followed 309,000 people for an average of 7.5 years. That’s about the same improvement to mortality as the one that comes from quitting smoking.

It’s hard to say whether Americans are lonelier now than in the past. But they’re certainly more independent than ever. Almost half of U.S. adults are now single. Americans are waiting longer to get married, they’re having smaller families, and about half of all marriages still end in divorce.

Researchers are worried about what these trends mean for Americans as they get older. Will seniors of the future get enough support? Or should we prepare for an epidemic of end-of-life loneliness and isolation?

Thirteen percent of U.S. adults were living alone in 2015, according to a recent study by the National Center for Family & Marriage Research. While that’s up only about 1 percentage point since 1990, different age groups are behaving differently. The share of people under 45 living alone hasn’t budged in 25 years. People 65 and over are living alone slightly less often. That’s partly because, thanks to increased longevity, fewer older people are widowed.

Americans aged 45 to 65, though, are increasingly living on their own.

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Living alone isn’t the same thing as being lonely, of course. “Most people who live alone and age alone are quite active socially,” said Eric Klinenberg, a New York University sociology professor.

What worries Klinenberg and other sociologists is older people feeling isolated, especially from family members. This is a relatively new problem. “For most of human history, almost all older adults have been part of dense kin networks,” write sociologists Rachel Margolis and Ashton Verdery.

One of the biggest concerns is aging people who have no close living relatives. Margolis, of the University of Western Ontario, and Verdery, of Penn State University, tried to figure out how many Americans fall into this category, analyzing survey data from 1998 to 2010. They found that 6.6 percent of U.S. adults 55 and older have neither a spouse nor biological children still alive. Just 1 percent of older Americans have essentially no relatives at all alive, including a spouse, partner, children, or biological parents or siblings.

Those numbers are expected to rise. The divorce rate for 55 to 64-year-olds more than doubled from 1990 to 2015, the National Center for Family & Marriage Research estimates. Once divorced, people are also remarrying less often.

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In the future, seniors will also have fewer children and siblings to call for help. On average, baby boomers grew up in large families, with lots of brothers and sisters. But women today are having far fewer children—the total U.S. fertility rate dropped 26 percent from 1970 to 2015—and more people are growing up as an only child.

In a new study released this month, Verdery and Margolis predict that the number of older Americans without any living kin is about to surge. Using more than 100 years of Census Bureau data to track American families, they project that the share of non-Hispanic whites without any living close kin will double by 2060. The share of non-Hispanic blacks without close kin is expected to more than triple. (Immigration and a lack of data made it difficult to study other racial groups.)

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In place of relatives, many people “try to create their own families,” Klinenberg. However, “those networks can be quite fragile.”

To handle these trends, the U.S. needs more and better housing options for older adults, Klinenberg argues. Social mores might also need to change to make sure people—especially men, who are more prone to social isolation—stay connected as they get older. “Our society is evolving quickly, but probably not quickly enough,” he said.

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2017-10-09/americans-face-a-rising-risk-of-dying-alone


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