It is hard to remember if I posted this before you became more active on this board or after.
Yes, I did have more pressing matters for a time. Now I need to LAUGH OUT LOUD, so I come here.
She is overwhelmed with the decisions she has to make. Grad school or the business world. We are offering her support but we won't tellher what she should do.
Understood - I get it. Ribit was trying to tell you before to watch out for the professor and his "research project" - he is wise in his advice.
You and Mrs. Nacl are to be commended for your daughter's achievements, and the wisdom to let her decide for herself.
I have a suggestion regarding her future, even though you didn't ask for it. If she really wants to go to grad school, it is very difficult to attend 20 years after being an under-grad. The sooner the better. However, some employers pay their new employees' tuition, so if that offer is on the table at one place, it might be worth it to consider that employer over another.
If you think education is expensive, try ignorance.