I would like to see your proof that the Democratic party "positively despises white men". Of course if you're just expressing an opinion, I could claim that the Republican party positively despises everyone EXCEPT white men and would have just about as much evidence as you do to support my position (that's what's nice about opinions, everyone has the right to one).
As for your question about my family's heritage, both my wife and I are native born Americans of European ancestry, in my case Flemish and Alsatian, and in my wife's case, Welsh and Polish. As for my grandchildren, we have five granddaughters, four of them have an American-born mother who is of Korean and German ancestry, and one granddaughter who's mother is a naturalized American citizen from Mexico.
So I guess you'd say that we're a pretty typical example of a modern American family, eh?