"Actually loves the dude"?
Color me skeptical ... very skeptical.
These attention whores ... men (The Bachelorette) and women (The Bachelor) ... don't go on these irreality shows to find love. I seriously doubt if they know what love is. They preen and strut to become "famous" ... whatever that means. Seems like a very empty existence to me. I've no interest in watching such impending train wrecks.
And as for Mr. Harrison ... well ... he needs to develop something called "self-respect" ... and a pair of balls.