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Re: When the relationship starts to change

By: micro in 6TH POPE | Recommend this post (0)
Sun, 17 Jul 22 3:54 PM | 16 view(s)
Boardmark this board | 6th Edition Pope Board 		Msg. 33726 of 58574
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Ribs,

don;t know how long you guys have been together and I do know you are a few years older which may well make a difference in the female who go through some very interesing chemistry changes as they grow older.

But I have noticed similar things. Miz micro is discovering as I continue to get better with walking after the hip because I also have other issues on that right leg and foot besides the hip, such as a knee that needs replaced, and ankle foot ligament damage, that I can actually do things on my own and do not require her to constantly be "bossing" me around.. I am unaccustomed to being chronically bossed and picked at. So it doesn;t go over well. I nearly bit my tongue in half yesterday
refraining from responding from another undeserved remark..

Have you noticed yet that whenever you go ut in the vehicle you may own that suddenly you are a terrible driver and are never far enough away from a person in an entire other lane or you are going too fast though you are only following traffic and just keeping up?

Do ya get the arms flying for bracing for impact yet??? Every red light whether a brake light half a mile away or a street traffic light she thinks you don't see?

Women are funny and they get worse as they age..

I have taught my wofe to be more and more independent and a stronger leader because shewas the most timid and shy person on planet earth when we married. That has long passed and so I understand completely what you are saying.. I don't know what it is but trust me, you are not alone and I am actually contemplating going to a rehab hoome for a couple weeks after my knee instead if coming home due to that very thing..


NOW, in all fairness, lets give our lifetime mates some credit.. They have stayed by us all these years and they have worked hard at home to keep things runnig smoothly hjere on the homefront.. They faithfully keep clothing clean and put away, as well as cook and clean the house..

Raised children predominantly.. They have done an awful lot on their part.. So I guess we should ive them credit and appreciation for all they do in spite of the unappreciated and unknown commentary that sometimes comes from their mouths.. If an employee would have ever spoken to me the way my wofe feels entitled to some times, they would be shown the door instantly.. Amazing what LOVE will overlook is it not?

Hoping to make it to 50th anniversary..



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When the relationship starts to change
By: ribit in 6TH POPE
Sun, 17 Jul 22 3:39 AM 		Msg. 33717 of 58574

When the relationship starts to change!

...somethin about oxy that clears my mind and makes me a brilliant spokesman about any and all problems in the world. It also helps me understand things like when relationships start to change.

...me and mz ribit was going thru our lives fairly happy. She had fixed a nice dinner and I sat down across the table from her. She then sat a napkin down on the table and put a knife fork and spoon on it. "There is your napkin and utensils" she says.

Now I don't know if she thought I wouldn't recognize the items or that I might think they were for somebody else. I remember thinking "WTF is this all about?" Anyway, that started me to noticing that she was talking to me as if I were no longer the stud what swupt her off her feets and won her heart and was now a handicapped child who needed constant supervision on even the simplest task.

"Put on your bedroom shoes" she tells me as I try to get out of my recliner to go to the potty during one of the many commercials provided for just such purpose. I look down and there are the bedroom shoes but they are too close. I try to move em with my feet and she kicks em even closer. They are now even more impossible to put on. "Here's your walker" she says as she helps me by standing between me and the walker. "Thank you dear!" She will then proceed to every door I have to pass thru to get to the restroom and stand there in the way until I show my total lack of appreciation by asking her to let me get by the only obstacle in the entire house.

These things are part of the feminine psyche and once they tell ya that the knife, fork spoon and napkin is yours and that there is gravy on ya chin or some pizza on ya shirt or that ya sat in her casserole the relationship is forever changed.

BTW: The pizza on my shirt was from yesterday

...more brilliance later!

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