Ribs,
don;t know how long you guys have been together and I do know you are a few years older which may well make a difference in the female who go through some very interesing chemistry changes as they grow older.
But I have noticed similar things. Miz micro is discovering as I continue to get better with walking after the hip because I also have other issues on that right leg and foot besides the hip, such as a knee that needs replaced, and ankle foot ligament damage, that I can actually do things on my own and do not require her to constantly be "bossing" me around.. I am unaccustomed to being chronically bossed and picked at. So it doesn;t go over well. I nearly bit my tongue in half yesterday
refraining from responding from another undeserved remark..
Have you noticed yet that whenever you go ut in the vehicle you may own that suddenly you are a terrible driver and are never far enough away from a person in an entire other lane or you are going too fast though you are only following traffic and just keeping up?
Do ya get the arms flying for bracing for impact yet??? Every red light whether a brake light half a mile away or a street traffic light she thinks you don't see?
Women are funny and they get worse as they age..
I have taught my wofe to be more and more independent and a stronger leader because shewas the most timid and shy person on planet earth when we married. That has long passed and so I understand completely what you are saying.. I don't know what it is but trust me, you are not alone and I am actually contemplating going to a rehab hoome for a couple weeks after my knee instead if coming home due to that very thing..
NOW, in all fairness, lets give our lifetime mates some credit.. They have stayed by us all these years and they have worked hard at home to keep things runnig smoothly hjere on the homefront.. They faithfully keep clothing clean and put away, as well as cook and clean the house..
Raised children predominantly.. They have done an awful lot on their part.. So I guess we should ive them credit and appreciation for all they do in spite of the unappreciated and unknown commentary that sometimes comes from their mouths.. If an employee would have ever spoken to me the way my wofe feels entitled to some times, they would be shown the door instantly.. Amazing what LOVE will overlook is it not?
Hoping to make it to 50th anniversary..