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Re: When the relationship starts to change

By: micro in 6TH POPE | Recommend this post (0)
Mon, 18 Jul 22 2:58 AM | 31 view(s)
Boardmark this board | 6th Edition Pope Board 		Msg. 33749 of 60008
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Ribs,
I really liked my mother in law when she was alive. She was really a wonderful person BUT, I am starting to see other traits and characteristics that were not as clear back then.. You are imo pretty much spot on imo.

That said, miz micro is kinda miz ribits polar opposite when it comes to riding in a car anymore.

IF I am driving she will do all kinds of BRACE for IMpact maneuvers when a brake light is seen a quarter mile away OR if I am not slowing down as quickly as she might like.

Mind that I have never had a traffic accident that I caused or anything else and I drive over 30,000 miles a year. Funny how that the atmosphere changes when miz micro gets behind the wheel.. Other drivers do not act any differently but she is calm as a farm pond then..

All these weird things are enough to keep her interestiung and for me, one of a kind. I knmow nobody else who acts like this but I suspect I only have myself to blame..

I spent a lifetime helping her gain self confidence and to be less timid. Be kind but always be thinking ahead.

I will say she is one of the kindest people I know to everyone else.. I believe that familiarity allows too much "freedom" to be ugly to one another. SO I have to work on keeping my thoughts to myself and reminding myself that God gave her to me and HE does not make mistakes.. He also never gives us anything MORE than we are capable of tolerating or overcoming..

I would not trade her for anything but simply wish she could be less blunt at times.

We made it this far so it looks like the journey will continue..




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Re: When the relationship starts to change
By: ribit in 6TH POPE
Sun, 17 Jul 22 10:34 PM 		Msg. 33739 of 60008

...mz ribit fusses cause I drive too slow and refuse to change lanes just to get "advantage" on a vehicle that has the audacity to use the road when it's her day to have the road. She gets angry if I let someone enter traffic from a parking lot or side street when it only cost us a few seconds. She also believes that it would be a disaster if she were to be a car length late to an event.

...she is also big on drumming her fingers and rolling her eyes if I do not take off like a dragster when the traffic light changes. Hitting a hole in the road is also unforgivable even if the hole is more like a ditch and goes all the way across the road.

....when I approach a crowded intersection I will take my foot off the gas and raise it over the brake so that if anyone does anything stupid in front of me that I have time to stop or at least slow down. She accuses me of STOPPING right in the middle of the road.

...what folks don't realize about women is that as they age they turn into their Mothers. When ya are dating ya should meet her mother. If ya don't like the ma you ain't gonna like her when she ages. It has something to do with the female hierchy of family control.

I have taught my wofe to be more and more independent and a stronger leader because shewas the most timid and shy person on planet earth when we married.  

...mz ribit and I had a brief spell where she wanted to "Go Find Herself". Whoever came back is not the one I married. It is said that women marry men hoping they will change. Men marry women hoping they wil not change. Both are certain to be disappointed.

I sincerely believe that men change too. Especially when sex can no longer be used as a weapon by the female of the species. The term P-Whipped didn't just fall out of the sky ya know.

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