If ya don;t like Heaven maybe you might be interested to learn more about the other place.
http://www.amazon.com/Hell-Real-Mans-Terrifying-Journey/dp/1533377014
Some people in near death experiences have also been given a preview of hell before they have actually died and given a second chance. Some of them have written about it to help the skeptics who are to intellectual to believe something GOD made clear a very long time ago.
Some have seen it firsthand. Since ya don't like the Pastor telling his son's account of Heaven maybe you might like this person's account of being shown the other place where unbeliever's spend eternity.
Ya don't want to wind up here..And when ya die its too late. There are no second, third, fourth chances and the idiology of someone else praying someone into Heaven is ABOMINATION and pure BS.
Every individual has one soul and one Spirit. The soul is your personality. The Spirit is that eternal part of you that God the Holy Spirit gives eternality to.
When a person dies the SPIRIT leaves the body and is escorted by a death angel to your destination.
Heaven or Hell. And that choice is up to each and every person who has reached the age of accountability. That is when they are old enough to think and have decision making ability.
Anyway, just trying to give ya a good read and very interesting story that is genuine and true. And witnessed by someone else 12,000 miles away..