I viewed your listing and wanted to ask you something important. I am in a relationship and caught my partner cheating on me so I decided to get even! My friend said cl would be the best place to find someone closeby who I can hook up with for one time only so thought the hell, I would email someone I thought sounded amazing in the ad and came across yours! You seem real and exciting so would you be maybe interested in chatting online first to see if we're like minded? To prove to you that I am real, I uploaded all of my pics, cell #, and a special note for you only under my private profile page. Can you text me today if you think I am hot? This way I can weed out bots and scammers as I'm fed up with them! I bet you'll be taken aback to see who I am!
Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.