re: "The person creating the problem can NOT claim to be the 'victim.'"
Really? A nagging wife who gets the crap beaten out of her by her frustrated husband isn't a victim? A person who goes out walking alone at night in Washington D.C. (*everyone* knows how stupid that is) and gets mugged isn't a victim?
That's an interesting p.o.v., clo. I don't agree. I don't believe my rights are so easily forfeited.