Thanks pal, and you folks here are awesome. Your prayers and best wishes helped me out so much. I am almost totally accepting , and thew rainbow bridge real or not works for me. and I am going with that thought and will be with wiggles when I go.....
Realist - Everybody in America is soft, and hates conflict. The cure for this, both in politics and social life, is the same -- hardihood. Give them raw truth.